The Rights of Husband and Wife: The Foundation of a Sacred Bond
In Islamic morality, marriage is not merely a companionship but a sacred bond where mutual rights and responsibilities are fulfilled. As understood from the works of Abdülkadir Geylani, husband and wife should understand each other’s needs and strive to meet them. This is not only a material but also a spiritual responsibility; love, respect, and affection must form the basis between spouses. A woman’s obedience to her husband is an important reflection of Islam’s beautiful morality, and in return, she must be aware of and protected by her own rights; because a healthy marriage is possible only with the parties fulfilling their responsibilities towards each other.
The Importance of Marriage: The Gateway to Brotherhood and Spiritual Wealth
Our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized the importance of marriage in his hadiths. Marriage completes a man’s potential while also strengthening brotherhood and family ties. Being unmarried is considered ‘destitution’ in the words of our Prophet; this fact demonstrates the striking importance of marriage in human life. However, marriage is not only a necessity but also an important way to achieve spiritual wealth, gain Allah’s pleasure, and attain worldly and eternal happiness; therefore, it is necessary to take marriage seriously and follow the example of our Prophet.
The Customs of Nikah (Marriage Contract) and Spiritual Preparations: Ways to Honor the Union
Nikah is a sacred contract with special customs in Islam. As mentioned in Geylani’s works, it is recommended that nikah be performed on Saturday or Thursday; this is one of the spiritual preparations made for the marriage to be blessed. Reciting prayers during the Nikah ceremony and wishing the new couple a virtuous and blessed path is important. Furthermore, following the advice of Abdullah bin Mas’ud (may Allah be pleased with him) on the wedding night helps ensure spiritual purity and blessing; these customs express that marriage is more than just a physical union, it is a spiritual journey.
Spiritual Cleansing in Intimacy: Protection from Satan’s Influence
Even in sexual relations, Islamic morality emphasizes spirituality. Reciting Bismillah (In the name of Allah), seeking refuge in Allah, and reciting prayers to protect oneself from Satan before intimacy contributes to this relationship being blessed and virtuous. As also mentioned in the works of Abdülkadir Geylani, avoiding facing the Qibla (direction of prayer) during sexual intercourse, paying attention to modesty, and preventing others from seeing are ways to preserve spiritual purity; these behaviors are aimed at making married life pleasing to Allah. The care taken by mothers and fathers regarding nutrition during pregnancy is also an important practice that contributes to protecting the child from Satan.
Sustainability of Marriage: Communication and Respect
Communication and respect are of great importance for the sustainability of marriage. Men playing with their wives and trying to understand their needs will prevent discord and disagreements. Showing a willing interest in one’s wife, understanding her feelings, and supporting her will increase the blessing of marriage. The prohibition of ejaculating outside the woman’s body without her consent demonstrates the importance of mutual respect and consent; because a healthy marriage is possible only when the parties are sensitive and respectful to each other.